Category: Love

So, the verse of the day today is this:

Psalm 90:12-17

12 So teach us to number our days
that we may get a heart of wisdom.
13 Return, O LORD! How long?
Have pity on your servants!
14 Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love,
that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.
15 Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us,
and for as many years as we have seen evil.
16 Let your work be shown to your servants,
and your glorious power to their children.
17 Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us,
and establish the work of our hands upon us;
yes, establish the work of our hands!

There’s so much I could say here. This passage triggers a lot in my thinking. But, I’ll just share one thought.

Take a glance at verse 14: “Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.” I guess in my heart I feel there are so many passions and desires and motivations that really, at times, are pulling me in all sorts of directions. I know that if I don’t learn to really submit those things to God, it’s easy to find myself being pulled in all sorts of different directions. At times, too, it’s easy to go seeking satisfaction in all sorts of different things besides God, too.

I find this is really my prayer and my heart: Oh God, please satisfy me in you that I won’t go seeking satisfaction in other things!

That’s my thought for now.

I was listening to an album of hymns this morning and came across this one. I caught myself almost in tears as I grasped the truth and beauty of the words. Praise the Lord, for He love us so. (I especially love the last verse.)

The love of God is greater far
Than tongue or pen can ever tell.
It goes beyond the highest star
And reaches to the lowest hell.
The guilty pair, bowed down with care,
God gave His Son to win;
His erring child He reconciled
And pardoned from his sin.

O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure
The saints’ and angels’ song.

When hoary time shall pass away,
And earthly thrones and kingdoms fall;
When men who here refuse to pray,
On rocks and hills and mountains call;
God’s love, so sure, shall still endure,
All measureless and strong;
Redeeming grace to Adam’s race—
The saints’ and angels’ song.

Could we with ink the ocean fill,
And were the skies of parchment made;
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade;
To write the love of God above
Would drain the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky.

(The album I was listening to was by Ascend the Hill and was a free download from Come & Live. Listen and download it if you’re interested.)

There are some things that you hear so often that it’s hard to even know what they mean. One of those things for me is about God’s love. If you’ve grown up in Christian circles or spent time with Christians, hopefully you’ve heard that God loves you. I know I did. The problem, though, is that I heard that so much that I never really stopped to consider what it meant.

Over the past years of my life, I’ve found myself more and more wanting to understand what God’s love really is. In that time I’ve done a lot of thinking and reading and here are a couple thoughts I’ve had. Take a read:

1.) Love isn’t just a feeling. In our culture we think of love as something you feel—more or less feeling good about someone. If God’s love for us was just Him feeling good about us, it would be nice, but it wouldn’t really be life-changing. I feel good about a lot of people and things and it usually doesn’t result in anything other than a smile here and there. But, that’s not what love is. Yeah, love involves feelings for sure, but love is way more than that. True love is a decision and commitment to put someone else’s interests above your own. It’s acting to benefit another above one’s self.

Love understood in this light is profoundly different! God does not just feel good about us, God actively seeks out our best interests. If you haven’t thought about that before, take a second to let it sink in. The Almighty God takes real action to help you and bring about good in your life. You might not see the good and you might not see all your circumstances as good, but it’s there and it’s true.

2.) God’s love for us affects His emotions. Love isn’t a feeling, but it does involve feelings. This is pretty cool to me, in fact, a realization of this is what is prompting my writing today. Check this out:

Zephaniah 3:17 (ESV)

The LORD your God is in your midst,
a mighty one who will save;
he will rejoice over you with gladness;
he will quiet you by his love;
he will exult over you with loud singing.

God isn’t just some stoic, uninvolved power force. I want to unpack this verse for a second. Look at it by line:

  1. The LORD your God is in your midst – This means that He is near to us. He’s not far off and uninvolved, but rather He is close and he cares.
  2. [God is] a mighty one who will save – God is mighty to save and He, in His love, has saved us. We have this problem of sin—we think we’re better than God and that we don’t need him. Sin, though, destroys us because good can only come from God. God hates sin because he loves us so much that he hates seeing us be destroyed and missing out on good. God sent his Son, Jesus, to die that He might rescue us from the consequences of our sin, and bring us back into right relationship with Him. That’s intense love.
  3. [God] will rejoice over you with gladness – God rejoices over us; in His proactive love, He is excited and full of joy. He doesn’t resent us, He’s not disappointed in us. Rather, He is glad that He made us and that we are His creation.
  4. [God] will quiet you by his love – I have to read into this a little bit, but saying that “He will quiet you” implies there’s anguish and maybe some hurt. God longs to bring us peace and comfort through his love. Incidentally, this also alludes to how deeply He cares about us and our circumstances.
  5. [God] will exult over you with loud singing – Have you ever heard some really good news (like a favorite sports team victory, a great job offer, etc.) and just started shouting for joy? I know I have. That is how God feels about us every single day. He’s that excited. Sounds crazy? I think it does, but when you love someone, you do crazy things… and God loves someone… everyone, actually.

To me the notion that God gets excited or that He shouts for joy is pretty crazy. But, I know that I feel things, and I get excited, and I shout for joy. Maybe we feel those things because God feels those things. And maybe, too, God gave us those emotions so that we would better understand Him and how He feels about us. Think about it.

God cares about us deeply; He proactively works to bring about good for us; and He shouts with joy over us because His love for us is so intense that it fills Him with excitement. That is what it means when people say, “God loves you.” :)

This afternoon I went to the beach to do some reading. I came across this passage and it kind of hit me in a new way:

Matthew 5:44-45

“But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! 45In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike.”

I really love nature and I have long told people that my two favorite things are the sun and water. Something about the light of the sun, just really lifts my spirit, invigorates my body, and makes me want to live. Because of this, I have often praised God just for showing me his love by blessing my days with sunlight.

The thing that struck me newly today as I read these verses, was how God does, in fact, bless us with sun and rain. The crazy thing, though, is how as be blesses he doesn’t discriminate. Those who hate Him and those who love Him both get to experience His goodness. I am so thankful for this because it reminds me of His character: God is such loving, gracious, and merciful God—even to those who might not want His blessing and good.

This truth about God’s character has significant implications for the way followers of Christ should live. If God is merciful to those who hate him, what ought we to do? If God perseveres in giving grace to apathetic hearts, how should we interact with people who are such?

Be thankful today for God’s blessings and next time you see the sun shining or rain falling, remember that it’s shining/falling for the righteous and unrighteous alike. Praise God for giving good to those who don’t deserve it—yourself included! :)

I read this at the Faithwalkers Journal and had to share it here. So good!

Intimacy with a Father-Part I – Wednesday June 03, 2009
by Rob Gerber

O my God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you; in a dry and thirsty land where there is no water. Psalm 63:1

When you think of God, you have to think of Him as a God who is passionate about you. He is a father, a friend, a lover, and one who “gently leads those who have young” (Isaiah 40:11 NIV)—He very personally cares for you.

Your father may not have been like this. But you must believe that God reciprocates your desire for intimacy. If you doubt or forget His love, you’ll experience bitterness and despondency. So you need to drive the truths about God’s love for you into your soul. In my early days I listened to certain talks about God over and over on my walkman as I hiked to class each day at the university. For you it might be listening to Faithwalkers talks on an MP3. But you have to do it until these truths take root in your heart.

Do you actually believe that God desires intimacy with you? He is jealous for you like a lover—He wants your heart for Himself. His command is: “… you shall worship no other god, for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God” (Exodus 34:14). God wants you for His own! Jesus, looking over Jerusalem, said, “… how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing” (Luke 13:34 NIV). His fatherly tenderness and desire to protect are so evident here. And what does he say to his friends when he knows it is His last evening with them? “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer” (Luke 22:15 NIV). He longed for their fellowship and friendship. And this is God’s heart toward you!